Ashish Vidyarthi’s first wife Piloo has broken her silence, stating that he never cheated on her
After actor Ashish Vidyarthi’s wedding to Rupali Barua made headlines, his first wife Rajoshi Barua shared enigmatic posts on Instagram. Ashish, who is now 60 years old, tied the knot with Rupali Barua, a fashion entrepreneur from Assam. His first wife, Rajoshi Vidyarthi, who is also known as Piloo Vidyarthi, took to her Instagram page to share cryptic messages. Ashish and Rajoshi were married for 23 years before their separation.
The court wedding of Ashish Vidyarthi and Rupali Barua was a simple affair attended by close family members and friends. The wedding incorporated traditions from Kerala and Assam. Meanwhile, Rajoshi, an actress herself and Ashish’s first wife, has been garnering attention for her Instagram posts.
In one of her Instagram stories, she shared a quote that emphasizes the importance of a partner who values and respects you. Another post suggests that overthinking can disrupt inner peace and advises embracing blessings. Rajoshi also posted a picture of herself with a message urging people not to get perplexed in the complexities of life.
Rajoshi Barua is the daughter of renowned actress Shakuntala Barua, and she and Ashish have a son named Arth Vidyarthi.
Speaking about his second marriage, Ashish Vidyarthi expressed his joy at marrying Rupali Barua, describing it as an extraordinary feeling. The couple had a court marriage in the morning and a small family gathering in the evening. Ashish shared that they had met some time ago and decided to take their relationship further. Their wedding photos have now become viral on social media.
There are numerous narratives circulating on the internet regarding you and Ashish today… Can you shed some light on what really happened?
Piloo Vidyarthi: It’s something that I may not have realized before, or maybe it was always there, but I didn’t feel the need to express it. My child grew up and moved abroad. As an artist, I followed my own desires, and no one imposed any restrictions on me. However, as I explored further, I realized our (mine and Ashish’s) future aspirations were different. He has every right to pursue his dreams and become whatever he wishes to be.
We often hear about compromise in a marriage. People end up doing it, including myself. But what many may not realize is that it happens behind closed doors. You can’t measure how much one compromises mentally or materially; it’s a delicate line. At least I cannot live like that, you see. Our desires don’t align for a married life. I know people who manage to do it. I’m not calling them wrong, but I often wonder how much of what we see on social media about spouses is true. Only they know the truth, right?
Regarding us, there was no torture, hardship, or anything as people are speculating. We are two different individuals. For two years, we tried to follow separate paths, and now he is excelling in his career. I have been taking care of various backend matters for the past five years. In my personal life, I have different needs now. I cannot fulfill the role of Mrs. Vidyarthi anymore.
It must be challenging, especially now that people are trying to uncover who did what…
Piloo Vidyarthi: I wouldn’t have been able to make this decision without Ashish’s support. He handled it beautifully and made it easier for both of us. He said, “Let’s do this, let’s do that, and then let’s see.” I have heard about ugly fights between lawyers, but nothing of that sort happened between us.
I am going crazy with the interpretations people are making about us. It’s not fair. Ashish never cheated on me. Even if people think that all he wanted was to get married again, that’s a completely false narrative.
Everyone deserves a second chance at love…
Piloo Vidyarthi: Amar biyer dorkar nei tai ami biye korchina. Amar biyer dorkar hole amio kortam (I don’t need to get married. I would have done it if required). That’s not my need. He needs a partner. We cannot criticize a man for having his needs. It’s a good thing that he has found someone.
When did you file for divorce?
Piloo Vidyarthi: Last year in October, we filed a joint petition. No one pushed anyone. It was completely mutual. I have spent a significant part of my life as Shakuntala Barua’s daughter and Ashish Vidyarthi’s wife. Now, the time has come for me to walk my own path alone. I want my own identity, and to be clear, it’s not that he ever suppressed my identity. I just realized that he envisions a different future, while I see a different one.
In today’s time, people agree to part ways without much fuss, but we didn’t want to do that. Hence, we decided to remain friends instead. I will always be there for him with prayers and good wishes. I’m sure he holds only positive thoughts for me as well.
